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News Release
Program Notes from the Memorial
Service for Bhavesh Vijay Gandhi, Swaminathan Jayaraman and
Jithesh
Parameswaran
December 2, 1998 | 6 p.m. | Glass Pavilion
Johns Hopkins University
Reading: Rabindranth Tagore,
"Gitanjali" 96
When I go from hence
let this be my parting word,
that what I have seen
is unsurpassable.
I have tasted of the hidden honey
of this lotus that expands
on the ocean of light,
and thus am I blessed---
let this be my parting word.
In this playhouse of infinite forms
I have had my play
and here have I caught sight
of him that is formless.
My whole body and limbs
have thrilled with his touch
who is beyond touch;
and if the end comes here,
let it come---
let this be my parting word.
Biographies
Bhavesh Vijay Ghandi
Bhavesh Ghandi was born in Bombay, India on January 18, 1977. As
an elementary and high school student, he had an outstanding
record, being consistently placed at the top of his class. His
unwavering determination and exceptional aptitude helped him
overcome several obstacles to join the Indian Institute of
Technology (IIT), Bombay. His sincerity, hard work and superior
intelligence consistently placed him among the top of his class
and won him the admiration of all professors he worked with. In
July 1998, he received the Bachelors of Technology degree. He
was ranked fifth in a class of 60. His impressive academic
performance secured him a position in the Department of
Electrical and Computer Engineering at Johns Hopkins University
as a doctoral student.
Bhavesh was an ardent admirer of Hindi Music
and reading was one of his favorite activities. He had a great
fascination for fundamental theory and was deeply interested in
physics and mathematics. Bhavesh Ghandi will always be
remembered by his friends as a friendly, warm-hearted and lovable
person. He was always ready to sacrifice himself for his family
and friends. His classmates will never forget his smiling visage
as he went around touching many hearts with his kindness and
generosity. Cruel destiny snatched him away at the tender age of
21. He is survived by his parents and sister. He leaves behind
several friends and admirers who find it difficult to believe
that he is no longer with them.
Swaminathan Jayaraman
Swaminathan Jayaraman was born on June 15, 1972, in Bangalore,
India. Swami, as he was known to everyone, was the eldest of
three children. Right from the start Swami was a dedicated,
intelligent student. He studied metallurgical Engineering at the
Indian Institute of Technology, Kharagpur. Swami was admired for
his keenness by his teachers at IIT, and his friends appreciated
his sense of humor and his accommodative nature. He graduated
second in his class in 1993. After a brief tenure at the R&D
division of Essar Steel, Swami came to Johns Hopkins for graduate
studies in Fall 1995. He brought with him both his joviality and
his intellect. Here, too, he excelled as a student and earned
the respect of his professors. Sports - cricket, volleyball and
chess - were a passion for him. He brought an intensity,
fairmindedness and love of the game to the field which made
playing with him a delight. Swami lived his life according to
his strongly held religious beliefs. His honesty and integrity
won him the love and respect of all who knew him. Words cannot
express the grief we all feel for the tragic loss of one who
touched the hearts of so many.
Jithesh Parameswaran
Jithesh Parameswaran was born on 2nd April, 1974 in Coochin where
he spent his early years "either trying to get into the ships
that dock at Cochin port or running away from the devilish music
teacher." He was a sportsman, playing field hockey for his
school and college, playing cricket for his class team in
college, doing Taekwondo at Hopkins among other things. Off the
field he was still a competitor, excelling in quiz competitions,
going up to the national level. It was not just his academic
achievement but also his spirit and enthusiasm which earned him
the respect of his friends in REC Calicut where he did his BTech
in Computer Science, at bangalore where he spent a couple of
eventful years working and at Hopkins where he was pursuing
graduate studies. The terrible tragedy which took him away on
the 28th of November is all the more difficult for those around
him to deal with because of the love that he invoked so easily in
their hearts.
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Additional Comments by
Sharon M.K. Kugler, University Chaplain
Over the course of the last few days, we as a community have been
swept by tragedy. It has brought us literarily and figuratively
to our knees. We are raw and we are stunned. Much of what we
have felt and are continuing to feel has come in fragments.We
askourselves, how can this be?
Three beautiful, vibrant, young people, three sons from families
who are aching so far away, are gone. Two more beautiful young
souls suffer the torment of what is left behind. They suffer the
memory, the very notion of their survival.
We ask ourselves, what can we do? When will this pain ease?
This moment is so unwanted and yet it is upon us. We are left
trying to understand the fragments.
What has struck me so profoundly, so deeply these last few days,
is the very experience of incredible, unmistakable tenderness.
This community has come together, ravaged by loss, yet drawn to
actions of compassion and love. We have not hidden ourselves and
we have not hidden our grief. We have chosen to let it move us
toward a higher way of being. We have taken the fragments, the
broken pieces of ourselves and made a new whole, realizing that
we can never separate from the pain, but we can also never
separate from the power of and the very need for love and
tenderness.
In the planning of this service,
in the vigils kept at the hospital,
in the painful communication back to India,
in your gentle care of the personal effects of Bhavesh, Swami and
Jithesh,
in the moment to moment support you have shown to one
another.
My sisters and brothers, tender you have been.
There is a poem by Robert Browning Hamilton which says:
I walked a mile with Pleasure,
She chattered all the way;
But left me none the wiser
For all she had to say.
I walked a mile with Sorrow
And ne'er a word said she;
But oh, the things I learned from her
When sorrow walked with me.
I have learned that in a moment so unwanted, that once again, the
gentle face of God is revealed in those around me. We have
learned that in a moment so unwanted, we as a people can release
such tenderness upon one another that we cannot help but feel
grateful to know what had previously been hidden.
We have learned that in a moment so unwanted, so fragmented, that
we can become whole. Peace be with each and everyone of you, on
this night and evermore.
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As a result of this
tragedy,
two funds have been established:
The Students Memorial Fund and
The Family Assistance Fund
Contributions may be sent
to:
Johns Hopkins University
c/o The Homewood Student Affairs Business Office
4 Shriver Hall
3400 N. Charles St.
Baltimore, MD 21218
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